<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[It Gets Better,&nbsp;Ctd]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<object data="http://www.youtube.com/v/gaFoejBLhNI?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US" height="410" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="515"> <param name="data" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/gaFoejBLhNI?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US" /> <param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /> <param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /> <param name="src" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/gaFoejBLhNI?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US" /> <param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /> </object> <p>Dan Savage <a href="http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2010/10/04/it-gets-better-a-programming-note" target="_self">defends</a> his project against the <a href="http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2010/10/it-gets-better-ctd-1.html" target="_self">naysayers</a> who complain that it doesn&#39;t go far enough:</p> <blockquote> <p>I admit that [It Gets Better Project (IGBP)] doesn&#39;t do the impossible. It doesn&#39;t solve the problem of anti-gay bullying, everywhere, all at once, forever. The point of the videos is to give despairing kids in impossible situations a little thing called <em>hope</em>. The point is to let them know that things <em>do</em> get better. For some people things get better once they get out of high school, for others things get better while they&#39;re still in high school. And some kids, like the kid above, are helping to make things better for other kids who are in still high school. But things do get better and kids who are thinking about suicide need to hear that.</p> </blockquote> <p>Both <a href="http://www.ordinary-gentlemen.com/2010/10/empty-days/" target="_self">E.D. Kain</a> and <a href="http://www.ordinary-gentlemen.com/2010/10/empty-days/" target="_self">William Brafford</a> share their high school experiences.&#0160; And a high school teacher celebrates the IGBP:</p>]]></html></oembed>