<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[That&#8217;s So Gay,&nbsp;Ctd]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<object data="http://www.youtube.com/v/eHqXk350cTA?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US" height="410" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="515"> <param name="data" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/eHqXk350cTA?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US" /> <param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /> <param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /> <param name="src" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/eHqXk350cTA?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US" /> <param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /> </object> <p>A reader writes:</p> <blockquote> <p>I understand the <a href="http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2010/11/thats-gay.html" target="_self">point</a> Mark Peters is trying to make, but in doing so he compares &quot;gay&quot; to &quot;lame.&quot; Does he realize that the supposedly neutral word he&#39;s trying to compare &quot;gay&quot; to is a pejorative for people with disabilities?</p> </blockquote>]]></html></oembed>