<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Giving All, Ctd]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><img alt="Loveyou" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d83451c45669e201538de8e07f970b" src="http://andrewsullivan.readymadeweb.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/6a00d83451c45669e201538de8e07f970b-550wi.jpg" style="width: 515px;" title="Loveyou" /></p> <p>A reader writes:</p> <blockquote> <p>My mother gave me <em>The Giving Tree</em> during my sophomore year of college. I knew and loved the book but was slightly embarrassed to receive it from her at age 20. I rarely called home at that time. I even stayed with my girlfriend&#39;s family when she and I returned home for the holidays. My father had left when I was four. When Mom remarried she quickly became a diplomat in a makeshift family. She graduated college with a 4.0 GPA when I was a teen, but never missed a basketball game, band concert or school play. Only now - eight years later and still a zombie on the phone - do I realize the <a href="http://andrewsullivan.thedailybeast.com/2011/04/giving-all.html" target="_self">significance</a> of her buying me <em>The Giving Tree</em>. You&#39;ve put a lump in my throat.</p> </blockquote> <p>Another writes:</p> <blockquote> <p>I am a businessman, the father of a 13-, 11- and 9-year-old, and I cannot read <em>The Giving Tree</em> without choking up.&#0160; I think there are several reasons:</p> </blockquote>]]></html><thumbnail_url><![CDATA[https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/6a00d83451c45669e201538de8e07f970b-550wi.jpg?fit=440%2C330]]></thumbnail_url><thumbnail_width><![CDATA[374]]></thumbnail_width><thumbnail_height><![CDATA[271]]></thumbnail_height></oembed>