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<p>Linda Hirshman <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2297504/?from=rss" target="_self">notes</a> that &quot;conservatives defended heterosexual marriage inequality on the grounds  that women were naturally suited only for certain kinds of lives.&quot; She believes that marriage equality will further erode that notion:</p>
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<p>As  the arguments for heterosexual marriage inequality were used to fight  same-sex marriage, so the success of same-sex marriage is a living  refutation of the argument that marriage requires congenital natural  inequality with women on the bottom. Even the campaign for same-sex  marriage, consisting of a torrent of moving stories about the happy  same-sex couples who want to get married, is a feminist windfall. Maybe  marital equality and happiness aren&#39;t so incompatible after all.</p>
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<p>The very fact that two women can marry alters the perspective of women in a heterosexual marriage. Marriage equality is an advance for feminism too.</p>
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