<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Weight, Weed And&nbsp;Marriage]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<span style="font-size: 8pt;"><em> <img class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d83451c45669e2014e8ae45193970d" style="width: 515px;" title="Zombie-wedding-photos" src="http://andrewsullivan.readymadeweb.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/6a00d83451c45669e2014e8ae45193970d-550wi.jpg" alt="Zombie-wedding-photos" /> <br />by Zoë Pollock</em></span> I'll defer to (the very svelte) Patrick on whether newlyweds <a href="http://www.newswise.com/articles/view/579826/?sc=dwhr&amp;xy=10006990" target="_self">gain weight</a> after marriage, but Amanda Hess <a href="http://www.good.is/post/how-marriage-and-divorce-can-tip-the-scales-for-men-and-women/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+good%2Flbvp+%28GOOD+Main+RSS+Feed%29" target="_self">raises</a> some interesting concerns about post-marriage disparities: Married men <a href="http://www.cato-unbound.org/2011/08/12/amanda-hess/the-old-boys-club-lives-on/">make more money&nbsp;</a>and get more promotions than single guys. They <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/imag/Wellness/Is+Love+Better+for+Men%27s+or+Women%27s+Health%3F">live longer</a>,&nbsp;have less heart disease, drink less, smoke less weed, and experience less stress.&nbsp;Meanwhile, married women have <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/imag/Wellness/Is+Love+Better+for+Men%27s+or+Women%27s+Health%3F">less fulfilling sex lives</a>&nbsp;and<a href="http://www.lemondrop.com/2010/03/10/suprise-men-have-more-free-time-than-women/"> less free time</a>&nbsp;than their husbands. They also have <a href="http://www.cato-unbound.org/2011/08/12/amanda-hess/the-old-boys-club-lives-on/">smaller paychecks</a>. (They do get to keep smoking the same amount of weed). These factors help explain why women are&nbsp;<a href="http://www.good.is/post/gay-or-straight-we-all-want-a-wife/">less into marriage</a>&nbsp;than men are.&nbsp;And they may also contribute to the gendered risk of gaining weight after getting hitched.]]></html><thumbnail_url><![CDATA[https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2011/08/6a00d83451c45669e2014e8ae45193970d-550wi.jpg?fit=440%2C330]]></thumbnail_url><thumbnail_width><![CDATA[440]]></thumbnail_width><thumbnail_height><![CDATA[293]]></thumbnail_height></oembed>