<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[End Of Gay Culture Watch: A Hetero Grindr,&nbsp;Ctd]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://andrewsullivan.thedailybeast.com/2011/09/a-hetero-grindr.html" target="_self">Hetero Grindr</a> will apparently be more text than picture based. Bryan Lowder is <a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2011/09/07/grindr_for_women_can_the_gay_hookup_app_go_straight_.html" target="_self">skeptical</a> that this will work:</p> <blockquote> <p>[T]he real appeal of Grindr seems to be a kind of friendly/titillating voyeurism, spiked, perhaps, with a shot or two of narcissism. True, Grindr users certainly find friendship, sex, and even love through the app, but in my experience, grinding is really just a more advanced version of that old website “Hot-or-Not.” You look to see who’s cute or busted, you chat to see what people will say, and you criticize/praise profiles to your friends depending on your tastes. Then, you close it and check your email or, you know, talk to your friends in real life.</p> </blockquote> <p>Forget Hetero Grindr; OK Cupid <a href="http://gizmodo.com/5830259/okcupid-adds-grindr+like-location-feature-for-quick-shags-or-romantic-dates" target="_self">got there first</a>, last month:</p>]]></html></oembed>