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<p>A viral video argues no:</p>
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<p>Camille Chatterjee&#0160;<a href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200109/can-men-and-women-be-friends" target="_self">took on</a> this question a decade ago. She argues that male-female friendship isn&#39;t just possible; it&#39;s important:</p>
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<p>Although women dig men&#39;s lighthearted attitude, most male-female friendships resemble women&#39;s emotionally involving friendships more than they do men&#39;s activity-oriented relationships, according to Kathy Werking, at Eastern Kentucky University and author of We&#39;re Just Good Friends. Her work has shown that the number one thing male and female friends do together is talk one-on-one. Other activities they prefer—like dining out and going for drives—simply facilitate that communication. In fact, Werking found, close male-female friends are extremely emotionally supportive if they continuously examine their feelings, opinions and ideas. &quot;Males appreciate this because it tends not to be a part of their same-sex friendships,&quot; she said. &quot;Females appreciate garnering the male perspective.&quot;</p>
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