<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Paterno&#8217;s Legacy &#8211; And Ours,&nbsp;Ctd]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><img alt="19" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d83451c45669e20167611a49df970b" src="http://andrewsullivan.readymadeweb.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/6a00d83451c45669e20167611a49df970b-550wi.jpg" style="width: 515px;" title="19" /></p> <p>A reader writes:</p> <blockquote> <p>Why do so many people feel the need to <a href="http://andrewsullivan.thedailybeast.com/2012/01/paternos-legacy-and-ours.html" target="_self">ask</a>, &quot;In light of the scandal, how do we remember Joe Paterno?&quot; Why can’t we remember him and his life exactly as it happened?  One heinous act does not undo all the good he did in his life, much like a major kindness does not undo a life of evil.  Joe Paterno was an excellent football coach whom many considered to be a paragon of morality, good will, dedication and service.  But he also made mistakes, most notably he failed to act on information concerning the safety of children and in all likelihood enabled the further abuse of children.  But most importantly he was a human, and like all of us he is neither black nor white, but some shade of grey.  The need to classify him into a category of &quot;good&quot; or &quot;evil&quot; seems like folly to me.</p> </blockquote> <p>Another writes:</p> <blockquote> <p>I debated whether or not to share this, but as everyone has been sharing their &quot;JoePa stories&quot; lately, I thought it&#39;d be appropriate to share mine.</p> </blockquote>]]></html><thumbnail_url><![CDATA[https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/6a00d83451c45669e20167611a49df970b-550wi.jpg?fit=440%2C330]]></thumbnail_url><thumbnail_width><![CDATA[440]]></thumbnail_width><thumbnail_height><![CDATA[291]]></thumbnail_height></oembed>