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<p>A fertility institute is awarding free IVF to three couples. One of the winners:</p>
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<p>Bonnie Rochman has <a href="http://healthland.time.com/2012/06/19/fertile-ground-couples-compete-for-free-ivf-exploitation-or-generosity/" target="_self">mixed feelings</a>:</p>
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<p>[T]he panel of judges probably shed a lot of tears watching the&#0160;<a href="http://haveababy.com/uncategorized/i-believe-video-journal-entries/" target="_blank">45 competing videos</a>. Their job was to submit their favorites to the institute, which then shifted the contest to Facebook: in the end, the chance to make a baby for free came down to a social-media popularity contest. For the three winners, it was fabulous. For the others, it must have felt like yet another loss. And for the rest of us — watching these tales of woe on our computer screens — it felt undeniably voyeuristic. Or perhaps it’s just a sign of the times, when everybody shares everything and voting on Facebook is the ultimate democracy.</p>
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