<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Now Hapless And&nbsp;Helpless]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><iframe frameborder="0" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/pKepgrj_0TM" width="515"></iframe></p> <p>Heather Havrilesky <a href="http://www.theawl.com/2012/07/tired-tv-tropes" target="_self">applauds</a> the rise of TV characters who are pushing the typical tropes forward:</p> <blockquote> <p>On the vast majority of family shows, &quot;Dad&quot; isn&#39;t a person so much as a  shapeless halfwit, fumbling confusedly with modern appliances,  sputtering hopelessly in the face of tiny marital challenges, and just  generally underwhelming friends, family and foes at home and at work.  Strangely, though, this subhuman of limited charms, very little wisdom,  and almost no capacity for grasping complex emotions is, nine times out  of ten, remarkably smug about himself and his abilities. ...</p> <p>Thankfully, Louis CK came along and endowed the Hapless Dad with the  self-loathing that he rightfully deserves.</p> </blockquote>]]></html></oembed>