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<p>James Parker <a href="http://bnreview.barnesandnoble.com/t5/Reviews-Essays/Ascent-of-the-A-Word-Assholism-the-First-Sixty-Years/ba-p/8675" target="_self">reviews</a>&#0160;Dr. Geoffrey Nunberg&#39;s <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/andrewsullivan/rApM/~3/JEKhX_41PyI/understanding-assholism.html" target="_self">new book</a>:</p>
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<p>Hitler, Stalin, Osama bin Laden &#8212; these, Dr. Nunberg explains by way of  easing us into the subject, were not assholes. Their offenses were too  terrible, the scope of their wrongdoing too vast and alien. Your idiot  boss is an asshole, as is your annoying brother-in-law, your ungrateful  upstairs neighbor, and the cop who gave you a ticket this morning. <em>Asshole</em> is &quot;a word we reserve for members of our own tribe&#8230; It signals  indignation, with an undercurrent of contempt, an emotion you can only  feel towards those you feel both superior to and familiar with.&quot;</p>
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