<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Nothing To Lose]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>In an interview with <em>The Awl</em> about her new novel, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/The-Middlesteins-Novel-Jami-Attenberg/dp/1455507210" target="_self"><em>The Middlesteins</em></a>, Jami Attenberg <a href="http://www.theawl.com/2012/10/jami-attenberg-chat" target="_self">describes</a> why her decision to leave a more conventional career for the writer&#39;s life worked:</p> <blockquote> <p>I don&#39;t recommend you go all in to a creative-writing career like I did  unless you have nothing to lose by doing so. I don&#39;t have a family, for  example, no future college educations or mortgage to consider. The only  child I have to take care of is myself. For the past few years in  particular my attitude has been: I&#39;m already broke, what&#39;s wrong with  being a little more broke? You sort of just get used to it. You watch  everyone around you move forward in their lives in traditional ways, and  you accept that you will not be on the same path, especially if you&#39;re a  single person, which I am. You just have to give into it, or give up.  It&#39;s not for everyone.</p> </blockquote> In early reviews of <em>The Middlesteins</em>, Attenberg&#39;s Jewish upbringing - and the book&#39;s Jewish characters - have been consistently explored. Adam Kirsch <a href="http://www.tabletmag.com/jewish-arts-and-culture/books/114033/big-eater" target="_self">describes</a> the eponymous family this way:</p>]]></html></oembed>