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<p>Laura Vanderkam <a href="http://www.city-journal.org/2012/22_4_self-help-books.html" target="_self">uncovers</a> the contradictions of the American penchant for self-improvement:</p>
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<p>[T]he people who buy these books are, like all book buyers, &quot;pretty comfortable,&quot; says John Duff of Penguin. &quot;It’s going to be that middle-class person, reasonably well-educated&quot; and in &quot;very rarefied&quot; company, as &quot;our market for all books is really very limited. Most people stop reading when they leave school.&quot; Those who don’t stop probably have their acts together. </p>
<p>Call it the paradox of self-help. &quot;The type of person who values self-control and self-improvement is the type of person who would seek more of it in a self-help book,&quot;Whelan says. &quot;So it’s not the unemployed crazy lady sitting on the couch eating potato chips who reads self-help. It’s the educated, affluent, probably fairly successful person who wants to better themselves.&quot;</p>
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