<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Capturing Tragedy]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg"><img data-attachment-id="130027" data-permalink="https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2013/01/30/the-da-8/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi/" data-orig-file="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg?w=580&#038;h=386" data-orig-size="800,533" data-comments-opened="0" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi" data-image-description="" data-medium-file="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg?w=580&#038;h=386?w=300" data-large-file="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg?w=580&#038;h=386?w=800" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-130027" alt="6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi" src="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg?w=580&#038;h=386" width="580" height="386" srcset="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg?w=580&amp;h=386 580w, https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg?w=150&amp;h=100 150w, https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg?w=300&amp;h=200 300w, https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg?w=768&amp;h=512 768w, https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/6a00d83451c45669e2017ee807ff6c970d-800wi.jpg 800w" sizes="(max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px" /></a></p>
<p>In the wake of the Newtown shootings, NPR <a href="http://www.npr.org/2012/12/19/167624703/in-faith-finding-answers-to-the-mystery-of-evil" target="_self">ran an item</a> accompanied by the above picture. The news outlet was later contacted by the woman shown in the picture, Aline Marie, who noted that &#8220;no one asked [her] permission to post [the picture].&#8221; Coburn Dukeheart <a href="http://www.npr.org/blogs/pictureshow/2013/01/28/169536213/what-it-feels-like-to-be-photographed-in-a-moment-of-grief">relates</a> her feelings about the experience:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I sat there in a moment of devastation with my hands in prayer pose asking for peace and healing in the hearts of men,&#8221; [Aline Marie] recalls. &#8220;I was having such a strong moment and my heart was open, and I started to cry.&#8221; Her mood changed abruptly, she says, when &#8220;all of a sudden I hear &#8216;clickclickclickclickclick&#8217; all over the place. And there are people in the bushes, all around me, and they are photographing me, and now I&#8217;m pissed. I felt like a zoo animal… yes, it was a lovely photograph, but there is a sense of privacy in a moment like that, and they didn&#8217;t ask.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Dukeheart also spoke with the photographer, Emmanuel Dunand:</p>
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<blockquote><p>[W]hen he took Marie&#8217;s photo, he knew she was suffering, but that he simply didn&#8217;t want to bother her. He thought that leaving her alone was the most respectful thing to do.</p></blockquote>
<p>NPR solicited reader comments on whether photographers should &#8220;interact with their subjects in moments of grief&#8221; to ask permission and names, or if it is &#8220;more respectful to leave them alone.&#8221; Dukeheart summarizes the responses <a href="http://www.npr.org/blogs/pictureshow/2013/01/29/170515318/your-comments-about-a-public-photograph-of-a-private-grief" target="_self">here</a>.</p>
<p>(Photo: Aline Marie prays outside St. Rose of Lima church in Newtown, Conn., on the day of the school shooting. Marie noted in her message to NPR that she was &#8220;not asking [them] to take the photo down, nor [was she] offended.&#8221; By Emmanuel Dunand/AFP/Getty Images.)</p>
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