<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[&#8220;We&#8217;re Just Like Any Other&nbsp;Person&#8221;]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<div class="embed-vimeo" style="text-align: center;"><iframe src="https://player.vimeo.com/video/59248851" width="580" height="326" frameborder="0" webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen allowfullscreen></iframe></div>
<p>Ellen McCarthy <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/liveblog/wp/2013/02/07/when-bill-met-shelley-no-disability-could-keep-them-apart/">tells</a> one couple&#8217;s story:</p>
<blockquote><p>Experts say it’s difficult to track the number of couples with intellectual impairments, because they often enter into committed relationships without getting married. In many instances, a legal marriage could interfere with Social Security or health-care benefits. But the intellectually impaired and their advocates say it should surprise no one that they often possess an abiding desire to find a partner in life.</p></blockquote>
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