<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Chris Bodenner]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/cbodenner/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Joking About Suicide,&nbsp;Ctd]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<h6>by Chris Bodenner</h6>
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<p>A reader writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>I actually think the premise of <a href="http://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2013/08/17/joking-about-suicide/">Amy Schumer&#8217;s joke</a> is pretty funny, but it might be funnier if the guy arrives at work Monday and gets called on the carpet for not finishing his work. Of course he didn&#8217;t expect to be there, but it turns out this is hardly a new issue of his; he apparently never finishes anything he starts. &#8220;You need to develop some stick-to-itiveness, son! You need to follow through to the end!&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Another presumes that Comedy Central killed the joke because it was too skittish about the subject:</p>
<blockquote><p>There&#8217;s no place left for black comedy, I guess, in our timid times. Both <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000BZISTE/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B000BZISTE&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=thdi09-20"><em>MASH</em></a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/6305882592/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=6305882592&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=thdi09-20"><em>Harold and Maude</em></a> mined suicide to terrific comedic effect, the latter making suicide both the driver and climax of the movie. Within a year or so of those two movies, Ruth Gordon (Maude) also starred in the hilarious and pitch-black <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00006L932/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B00006L932&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=thdi09-20">Where&#8217;s Poppa?</a></em> We are poorer for our earnestness.</p></blockquote>
<p>Below are several more cultural references and links from readers:</p>
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<blockquote><p>Another sterling example of suicide played for laughs is the sequence in <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000SP1SH6/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B000SP1SH6&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=thdi09-20">Groundhog Day</a>,</em> in which Bill Murray, in a fruitless attempt to escape his endlessly repeating day in Punxsutawney, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M628DuIEZ_o">tries over and over to kill himself</a>. In this particular context, suicide is funny indeed. It&#8217;s only one of the many elements that makes <em>Groundhog Day</em> a classic film comedy and one of very few movies that succeeds in using suicide in a humorous way (and yet with a poignant touch).</p></blockquote>
<p>Another:</p>
<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m probably not the first to email the &#8220;Bruce&#8217;s Cry For Help&#8221; skit from <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004J713KQ/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B004J713KQ&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=thdi09-20"><em>Kids In The Hall</em></a>, but in case you haven&#8217;t seen it, it&#8217;s a chuckle (2:00 is the one laugh-out-loud moment for me):</p>
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<p>Another:</p>
<blockquote><p>Oh my gosh, you can&#8217;t consider suicide humor with Joan Rivers, who began making jokes about her husband Edgar almost immediately after he took his own life. She has continued to so, and it was a theme of her roast.  Not too long ago, she made Terry Gross <a href="http://www.npr.org/2012/06/11/154753767/joan-rivers-hates-you-and-everyone-else">almost speechless</a> with her comic references to it.</p></blockquote>
<p>Update from a reader:</p>
<blockquote><p>How can any discussion of joking about suicide not include “The End?” Burt Reynolds was at the height of his powers, and bearded:</p>
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