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<p>Last week, a Pew survey <a href="http://pewinternet.org/Reports/2013/Online-Dating/Summary-of-Findings.aspx">found</a> that one in ten Americans qualifies as an &#8220;online dater.&#8221; Among the other findings:</p>
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<blockquote><p>In general, online daters themselves give the experience high marks. Some 79% of online daters agree that online dating is a good way to meet people, and 70% of them agree that it helps people find a better romantic match because they have access to a wide range of potential partners.</p>
<p>Yet even some online daters view the process itself and the individuals they encounter on these sites somewhat negatively. Around one in ten online daters (13%) agree with the statement that “people who use online dating sites are desperate,” and 29% agree that online dating “keeps people from settling down because they always have options for people to date.”</p></blockquote>
<p>Lance Whitney <a href="http://news.cnet.com/8301-1023_3-57608454-93/online-dating-hooks-up-with-one-in-10-american-adults/">points</a> to other perils:</p>
<blockquote><p>More than half of online daters said they met someone who &#8220;seriously misrepresented&#8221; themselves in their online profile. And 28 percent said they were contacted by someone in a way that made them feel harassed or uncomfortable. Around 42 percent of women expressed that feeling, compared with just 17 percent of men.</p></blockquote>
<p>Read a related Dish thread, &#8220;A Dating Site For Every Subculture,&#8221; <a href="http://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2013/10/21/a-dating-site-for-every-subculture/">here</a> and <a href="http://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2013/10/26/a-dating-site-for-every-subculture-ctd/">here</a>.</p>
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