<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[The Science Of Faking&nbsp;It]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><span class="embed-youtube" style="text-align:center; display: block;"><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text/html' width='640' height='360' src='https://www.youtube.com/embed/b0OeM6UUAoI?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;autohide=2&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;wmode=transparent' allowfullscreen='true' style='border:0;'></iframe></span></p>
<p>Petra Boynton <a href="http://bps-research-digest.blogspot.com/2014/05/ill-have-what-shes-having-developing.html">looks at</a> research on feigning orgasms:</p>
<blockquote><p>In a two-stage study respondents (all heterosexual women college students majoring in psychology) were asked when, why and how they faked orgasm. The researchers then narrowed this into four categories:</p>
<p><em>Altruistic Deceit</em> (e.g. faked orgasm to make a partner happy or prevent them feeling guilty)<br />
<em>Fear and Insecurity</em> (e.g. faked orgasm because they felt ashamed they couldn’t experience orgasm)<br />
<em>Elevated Arousal</em> (e.g. faked an orgasm to get more turned on or increase the intensity of the experience)<br />
<em>Sexual Adjournment</em> (e.g. to end a sexual encounter because of tiredness, a lack of enjoyment etc)</p>
<p>We tend to view faking orgasm as manipulative, whereas this research suggested that it could well play a positive role in increasing arousal. I could see an additional measure of distress being useful here to identify whether the faking was something done pleasurably to enhance sex, or an indication of other <a href="http://www.sda.uk.net/">sexual</a> or relationships problems where perhaps education or therapy might be of benefit.</p></blockquote>
]]></html></oembed>