<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Dish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://dish.andrewsullivan.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Andrew Sullivan]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/author/sullydish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[A Poem For&nbsp;Saturday]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg"><img data-attachment-id="252264" data-permalink="https://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2014/07/19/a-poem-for-saturday-110/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o/" data-orig-file="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg?w=580&#038;h=375" data-orig-size="1000,648" data-comments-opened="0" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;unknown&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o" data-image-description="" data-medium-file="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg?w=580&#038;h=375?w=300" data-large-file="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg?w=580&#038;h=375?w=1000" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-252264" src="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg?w=580&#038;h=375" alt="3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o" width="580" height="375" srcset="https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg?w=580&amp;h=375 580w, https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg?w=150&amp;h=97 150w, https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg?w=300&amp;h=194 300w, https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg?w=768&amp;h=498 768w, https://sullydish.files.wordpress.com/2014/07/3035891049_b4197fe4f3_o.jpg 1000w" sizes="(max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px" /></a></p>
<p>Dish poetry editor Alice Quinn writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>In 1998, the poet and editor Deborah Garrison published her debut collection, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0375755403/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0375755403&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=thdi09-20&amp;linkId=3RHHCJUHJLFH5DP2">A Working Girl Can’t Win</a>. </em>At the time, she and I were colleagues at <em>The New Yorker</em>. Now she is poetry editor at Alfred A. Knopf, where I once had the same wonderful job, as well as a senior editor at Pantheon Books.</p>
<p>Her book was highly praised, drawing compliments from A. Alvarez (“A triumph of wit and modesty.”), <em>The New York Times Book Review</em> (“An intense, intelligent and wonderfully sly book of poems.”), and John Updike, who wrote, “Many a working girl will recognize herself in the poems’ running heroine, and male readers will part with her company reluctantly.”</p>
<p>What struck me rereading the book last weekend were the poems about a young marriage. We’ll post three in the hope that many of you will find them as winsome and dear as we do.</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8220;3:00 A.M. Comedy&#8221; by Deborah Garrison:</p>
<blockquote><p>Sometimes it’s funny, this after-hour when<br />
whatever hasn’t happened between us<br />
hasn’t happened again, and I pretend</p>
<p>to be another kind of woman, who spends<br />
the night on the couch in a rage,<br />
on strike for affection—</p>
<p>How ridiculous.<br />
I’m always in this bed,<br />
if not having you, then forgiving you</p>
<p>exquisitely, consoling myself<br />
with a lame joke: I’m a shrinking<br />
being, tinier and tinier I grow,</p>
<p>there I go!<br />
The last woman on earth<br />
who even bothered about sex,</p>
<p>and now I’m nothing but a speck.<br />
What a shame for all those lusty men;<br />
their world without me is barren.</p>
<p>While you, my dear, get<br />
larger: you’re a hulking, man-<br />
shaped continent, a cool green</p>
<p>giant (I can hardly reach your leafy<br />
parts), or a statuesque<br />
philosopher-king, whose sleep soars</p>
<p>above mathematics, his loftiest argument.</p></blockquote>
<p>(From <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0375755403/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0375755403&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=thdi09-20&amp;linkId=3RHHCJUHJLFH5DP2"><em>A Working Girl Can’t Win</em></a> © 1998 by Deborah Garrison. Used by permission of Random House, an imprint and division of Random House LLC, a Penguin Random House Company. Photo by Flickr user <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/sprochello/3035891049/in/photolist-5CgJD8-2BKh4r-2BLV8D-2BPFw9-2BPGhA-2BPJdm-2BPERL-jC3LLU-7CFzbg-76vLTA-4AEs1f--9DFqo2-4JbM7D-3ieqjX-ioG1Gj-9YW4aH-3i283g-bzTbmv-5aNXSe-25HVW-aCpLkb-5PrErJ-9nAzXV-6RvT1z-6aLcqb-cpHcs-84DFXM-69vPyB-4MdcTb-7RGDEU-Maa76-dk92HE-4qxnu4-5DPvJh-ih3LP-agcrXJ-5DPvtC-5L9nio-5L3aA-9S1kat-5rchDk-5hyqqM-yg6iW-4G9kkP-mHkNUG-mHkP9u-mHkQeL-zHCak-2BKhGT">Sholeh</a>)</p>
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