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<p>I was off Facebook and Twitter for 10 days on vacation and I can honestly say I didn&#39;t miss a thing.</p>
<p>&mdash; Jessica Grose (@JessGrose) <a href="https://twitter.com/JessGrose/status/505162305395781632">August 29, 2014</a></p></blockquote>
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<p>David Roberts <a href="http://www.outsideonline.com/outdoor-adventure/media/Reboot-or-Die-Trying.html">reflects</a> on choice to spend a year away from blogs and social media:</p>
<blockquote><p>By the end of 2012 I was, God help me, a kind of boutique brand, with a reasonably well-known blog, a few cable-TV appearances under my belt, and <a href="https://twitter.com/drgrist" target="_blank">more than 36,000 Twitter followers</a>. I tweeted to them around 30 times a day, sometimes less but, believe it or not, gentle reader, sometimes much more. I belong to that exclusive Twitter club, not users who have been “verified” (curse their privileged names) but users who have <a href="https://support.twitter.com/articles/15364-twitter-limits-api-updates-and-following" target="_blank">hit the daily tweet limit</a>, the social-media equivalent of getting cut off by the bartender. The few, the proud, the badly in need of help.</p>
<p>It wasn’t just my job, though.</p></blockquote>
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<blockquote><p>My hobbies, my entertainment, my social life, my idle time—they had all moved online. I sought out a screen the moment I woke up.  I ate lunch at my desk. Around 6 p.m., I took a few hours for dinner, putting the kids to bed, and watching a little TV with the wife. Then, around 10 p.m., it was back to the Internet until 2 or 3 a.m. I was peering at one screen or another for something like 12 hours a day.</p></blockquote>
<p>And a break from social media proved relaxing:</p>
<blockquote><p>By January, my days had settled into a rhythm. When I wasn’t walking or at yoga, I was doing yard work, reading novels, visiting with friends, fumbling away at a bass guitar, or enjoying time with the kids. Since I wasn’t working, they were no longer in after-school care, and in those hazy, unstructured afternoon hours before dinner we’d play catch or lie around the living room trading comic books. I spent hours at a time absorbed in a single activity. My mind felt quieter, less jumpy.</p></blockquote>
<p>The balance his is going to try to strike going forward:</p>
<blockquote><p>When I’m writing, I want to write with full focus. When I’m pinging, I want to ping without angst or guilt. When I’m with my family, I want to be with my family, not half in my phone. It is the challenge of our age, in work and in life: to do one thing at a time, what one has consciously chosen to do and only that, and to do it with care and attention.</p>
<p>I hope I’m up to it. That any of us are.</p></blockquote>
<p>During his guest-blogging stint, Freddie deBoer <a href="http://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2014/08/19/digital-breaks-or-breaks/">mulled</a> Roberts&#8217; internet break and those of other writers.</p>
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