<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Sithy Things]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://aggiesprite.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[LC Aggie Sith]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://aggiesprite.wordpress.com/author/aggiesprite/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[The Great Purge]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>And so it begins. Winter is here, so the calendar tells me, and time for me to start getting rid of the accumulated junk around here. That&#8217;s what Hubby calls it. I tend to have a tough time getting rid of stuff. Unfortunately, the kids tend to take after me in that respect. Oh, I&#8217;m not a hoarder by any stretch. And if I&#8217;m going to own up to it, so is Hubby, since a LOT of the stuff in the garage is his.</p>
<p>The worst part about going through stuff is the memories. Most people see that as a wonderful thing, but I don&#8217;t. I tend to remember everything, or at least, more than most people, and going through stuff tends to set off an avalanche of emotions for which sometimes I am not prepared. The other day I found a little hat that Eldest was fond of wearing when she was only a year old, and I had a really, <em>really</em> tough time placing it in the donation pile. All I kept seeing was Eldest walking around wearing the hat and smiling because she had learned to put it on herself.</p>
<p>I have to remind myself that these are just things. Some things I can never give away, no matter what. But I know that sometimes the memory is enough, and I need to learn to let go eventually. I&#8217;m just not sure that&#8217;s today 😉</p>
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