<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[The Avenging Red Hand]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://avengingredhand.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[avengingredhand]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://avengingredhand.wordpress.com/author/avengingredhand/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Should one disregard physical attractiveness, in pursuing a potential spouse? Of course&nbsp;not.]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<div class="wpcom-reblog-snapshot"><div class="reblogger-note"><div class='reblogger-note-content'><blockquote><p>Will S covers the rather silly idea that one should ignore physical attraction when seeking/choosing a spouse:</p>
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<p>It is encouraging to find elements of Christian ‘Red Pill’ thinking from outside of the Christian manosphere, within the wider Christian community; recently I found such a blog post written a little over a year ago, <a href="https://href.li/?http://www.theblazingcenter.com/2012/12/should-you-choose-to-be-attracted-to-your-potential-spouse.html">here</a>, by Stephen Altrogge, a Reformed writer, musician / songwriter and former pastor, in which he combats erroneous thinking encouraging relative disregard for physical attraction in relationship decision-making processes.</p>

<p>Some excerpts:</p>

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<p>Recently <a href="http://www.9marks.org/blog/choose-be-attracted-your-wife-or-potential-wife">Mike McKinley</a> and <a href="http://www.challies.com/">Tim Challies</a> both wrote articles which argued that young people, <em>particularly men</em>, should choose to be attracted <em>primarily</em> to a potential spouse’s spiritual beauty rather than physical beauty. I really respect both of these guys, love their gospel work, and usually agree with them, but as a pastor, both of these articles made me nervous. They made me nervous for two reasons.</p>
<p>First, the articles don’t fully appreciate the place of physical attraction in scripture. Yes, scripture is clear…</p>
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