<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Ballastexistenz]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Mel Baggs]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/author/ameliabaggs/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[In the name of memory (a&nbsp;song)]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>They say life on a battlefield<br />
Is sink or swim<br />
And only the strong survive</p>
<p>And those of us who survived<br />
We survived<br />
And we say to the next<br />
As they&#8217;re standing in line<br />
&#8220;We&#8217;ve done our time,<br />
now it&#8217;s your turn&#8221;</p>
<p>We learned our lesson too well<br />
We&#8217;ve taken our hell and passed it on<br />
&#8220;It will make you strong,&#8221;<br />
We say as we turn away</p>
<p>How easy is it to forget<br />
The ones who walked with us, talked with us<br />
The ones we fought alongside<br />
They didn&#8217;t survive, they fell</p>
<p>They were as strong as we<br />
But we can&#8217;t see this to be so<br />
For it would show how little power<br />
We had in the hour that they died</p>
<p>And we honor our fallen comrades<br />
With a rousing inspirational speech<br />
&#8220;You are our successors,&#8221; we say<br />
&#8220;And there&#8217;s no room to be weak<br />
Because life on a battlefield<br />
Is sink or swim<br />
And only the strong survive&#8221;</p>
<p>And those of us who survived<br />
We survived<br />
And we say to the next<br />
As they&#8217;re standing in line<br />
&#8220;We&#8217;ve done our time<br />
Now it&#8217;s your turn&#8221;</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve learned our lesson too well<br />
We&#8217;ve taken our hell<br />
And passed it on<br />
&#8220;It will make you strong,&#8221;<br />
We say as we turn away</p>
<p>And how easy it is to forget<br />
The ones who walked with us, talked with us<br />
The ones we fought alongside<br />
They didn&#8217;t survive, they fell<br />
Consumed by the hell<br />
We recreate<br />
In the name of memory</p>
<p>(Written several years ago, came to mind in a recent discussion with someone who waxed quite eloquent about the merits of this approach to life. It does have merits, but only for the people who survive it, who usually manage to forget everyone who didn&#8217;t.)</p>
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