<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Ballastexistenz]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Mel Baggs]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/author/ameliabaggs/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Kassiane&#8217;s privacy is being violated in (literally) obscene ways, please&nbsp;help.]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Feminist bloggers in particular, we might need your help on this.</p>
<p>Jerod Poore has now posted sexual pictures of Kassiane Sibley ( <a href="http://crazy-meds1.blogspot.com/2007/08/naughty-naughty.html" rel="nofollow">http://crazy-meds1.blogspot.com/2007/08/naughty-naughty.html</a> ) without her consent, in fact with <a href="http://rettdevil.blogspot.com/2007/07/psychotic-jerks-part-2-threats.html">her express non-consent</a>, because of whatever dispute they are having.  He&#8217;d apparently been threatening to post these pictures for awhile.</p>
<p>Please note:  <em>There is no excuse in the universe for doing this.</em>  Even if what he said were true.  Even if the sex were really wholly consensual (which Kassi says it wasn&#8217;t).  Even if Kassiane were manipulative and horrible and nasty and self-centered person who stole things from him and left his life a mess, there would be no excuse for this.  There is <em>no excuse in the world</em> for posting sexual pictures of her without her consent, and even <em>less</em> excuse to post them above her explicit objections.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t want to hear how she &#8220;deserved what she got&#8221; or whatever and I will not post comments of that nature so don&#8217;t even bother.  Just as, I don&#8217;t care what she&#8217;s supposedly done, <em>even if I believed every rumor</em> she would not deserve to die from lack of healthcare and I won&#8217;t print stuff that justifies that.  (Nor will I print <a href="http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?page_id=398">elaborate rehashes of gossip about her</a>.)  Right now she&#8217;s the one without healthcare, she&#8217;s the one with pictures of her naked butt all over the Internet without her consent and with demeaning sexual comments printed about her, and I utterly refuse to justify those two things as &#8220;she deserved it&#8221; or anything resembling it.  Nobody deserves this.  &#8220;She deserved it&#8221; and &#8220;She asked for it&#8221; are tired old objections that won&#8217;t get any airtime here, there&#8217;s plenty of other places to post crap like that.  If you do post stuff like that, though, I&#8217;ll take screenshots and forward it to whoever is handling this legally, so be forewarned.</p>
<p>I know that there are bloggers who read my blog who are far more immersed in the feminist community than I am.  (I am still learning about feminism, and agree with much of what I have seen so far, but have not directly been involved in that community at all.)  I would urge those who <em>are</em> involved in that community to get the word out <em>through</em> that community.  Ditto the autistic community.  This is a mess and I don&#8217;t know how to solve it.  It&#8217;s possible to <a href="https://www.blogger.com/problem.g">report things to Blogger</a> (and I urge everyone to do so) but this needs to go further than that, this has crossed so many lines it&#8217;s not even funny and someone with more experience in these sorts of matters needs to come to Kassi&#8217;s aid here.  All I can do is post alerts and try to make sure the right people find each other, my skillsets in these areas are frustratingly limited.</p>
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