<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Ballastexistenz]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Mel Baggs]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/author/ameliabaggs/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Story, story, story,&nbsp;WHAP!]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>I was reading a bunch of historical short stories, just starting to get into them when&#8230; whap!  It feels like a whap anyway, or like having someone dump icewater on my head. It&#8217;s that sensation when I&#8217;m jolted out of having an ordinary reading experience, and thrown into an all-too-detailed look at how the author sees (in this case) developmentally disabled people, or (in other cases) some other group of people I&#8217;m part of. </p>
<p>In this case, we&#8217;re shunted to the side, standing out even in a place supposedly devoted to nonconformity and diversity.  That&#8217;s not an unusual place to find us in people&#8217;s heads, but seeing it made so clear and obvious never gets any easier. We&#8217;re either on the sidelines, or we are there as a means to show another characters attitudes or morality, or we are piled high with the baggage the author carries from having a disabled family member. But whatever we are, we&#8217;re never just people, which is what we actually are in real life to anyone whose brain isn&#8217;t filled with BS about us.</p>
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