so today my beautiful wife [aka valerie slash tbV] decided she needed to go thru cupboards and stuff and get rid of crap.

my response, “yes, let’s get rid of crap, yay.”

her response was “hey, can we offer this stuff to Churien, the lady who comes and helps us clean our house once a fortnightday, who might have a use for a bunch of it?”

and Churien took most of the stuff, and i know that if she doesn’t use it she will pass it on to someone who will…

small thing in one sense, but where i saw getting rid of stuff we didn’t need or use [a lot of it easn’t really crap – some duvets and sleeping bag and clothes and kitchen stuff that we just don’t use or we have too much of] she saw an opportunity to meet a need in someone else’s life…

and she is like that a lot – she looks into situations and at people with tremendous vision… i hope i am learning this from her…

thank you lady, i love you…