i would love to hear from single Jesus-loving guys who read this blog. This seems to be a really huge cry from Jesus-loving women out there and i really think it’s important that we hear both sides. I don’t believe this is only a guy responsibility. I think there are issues on both sides of this dilemma and the best way to move forward on it is to hear from guys in the situation.
Here are some of my questions:
* Do you think it is fair to say that the guys in church need to step up and take some responsibility on this issue?
* In what areas do you think the girls in church need to take responsibility for the situation?
* What do girls do or fail to do that exacerbates (increase) the issue?
* What can the girls do to make it easier for you guys to ask them out/initiate relationships?
In case you were not yet aware of what issue we are talking about, the topic was raised when I wrote that you need to date someone who has Jesus as their number one focus. A bunch of girls responded by saying “where are these guys?” – either they don’t exist (Christ-following girls outnumber Christ-following guys in church) or else they are not asking us out.
From a single guys perspective, what are your thoughts? Why is it that girls have this perception which often leads to them dating people outside of the church cos of frustration or loneliness and lack of opportunity?
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