<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Irresistibly Fish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://brettfish.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[brettfish]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://brettfish.wordpress.com/author/brettfish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[How to Save a Marriage… before you need to. [part&nbsp;viii]]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>great words of marriage wisdom from my good friend Debbie [who once taught me how to play 30 Seconds, for the second time]</p>
<p>Realize that in the difficult stuff you are NOT against each other. Together, as a Team, face the issue. Don&#8217;t put it in between you. LISTEN to each others NEEDS. Actively love, in words, in actions, in selflessness, in putting their needs above your own. Can I just throw in there that Theran is awesome. Husband punt done. X</p>
<p> [Debbie Knighton-Fitt, married for 5 years]</p>
<p><a href="https://brettfish.wordpress.com/2011/11/13/how-to-save-a-marriage%E2%80%A6-before-you-need-to-part-ix/">to continue to the part with x in the number&#8230;</a></p>
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