<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Irresistibly Fish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://brettfish.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[brettfish]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://brettfish.wordpress.com/author/brettfish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[why my farts and snot are better than&nbsp;yours&#8230;]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>this may be a guy thing&#8230; but i&#8217;m not convinced [it&#8217;s just more underworld with the ladyfolks but maybe there will be a brave one or two to confirm? hmm?] but it goes a little something like this&#8230;</p>
<p>when <strong>i</strong> fart it is cool. when <strong>you</strong> fart it is gross or creepy. </p>
<p>when <strong>i</strong> pick my nose it is cool. when <strong>you</strong> pick your nose it is disgusting and gross.</p>
<p>now i can&#8217;t claim to have a particularly higher grade or haute couture brand of gas or snot&#8230; i mean i&#8217;d like to think that, but i&#8217;m pretty sure it&#8217;s the garden variety type&#8230; so there has to be something else going on here&#8230; and i suspect it is a matter if contextual perspective.</p>
<p>because it is <strong>me</strong>, i am okay with it&#8230; </p>
<p>which is very similar to sin&#8230; <strong>my</strong> sin not so bad, <strong>yours</strong> pretty gross, disgusting and unacceptable&#8230;</p>
<p>i imagine as long as i view life like that i will see <strong>myself</strong> as better than <strong>you</strong>.<br />
i will see <strong>my</strong> sin as less needing attention and dealing with and speaking out and walking away from.<br />
i will think <strong>yours</strong> hurts me a lot more than <strong>mine</strong> hurts you. </p>
<p>and probly a bunch more, but that&#8217;s enough to work at for starters.</p>
<p>practically it plays out differently because i can just make sure i am all alone when i engage in fart and snot and be able to be okay with it because it is mine&#8230;</p>
<p>my sin however, is a complex entanglement of private and public, internal and external, obvious and creatively subtle and i suspect is never solely mine. </p>
<p>that is all.</p>
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