<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Irresistibly Fish]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://brettfish.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[brettfish]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://brettfish.wordpress.com/author/brettfish/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Goth bless America [with the most surprising of&nbsp;ways]]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>i watched this clip today &#8211; it was titled &#8216;<strong>Goth Andrew De Leon</strong> something something something&#8217; and was obviously going to be one of those singing talent shows [the one without Simon Cowell] and clearly <strong>the big twist was going to be this goth suddenly singing like the offspring of Susan Boyle and Michael Jackson or something</strong> to that effect&#8230;</p>
<p>so i watched it and <strong>it deeply moved me</strong> [as they always do &#8211; pretend to be a rock but if you can watch this and not at least have the smallest hints of inner cry, you should get yourself checked out]</p>
<p><strong>so watch the clip and be moved</strong>&#8230; but for me it was more about the person who thought they were nothing and turned out to be someone [which contains its own needing-to-be-looked-at issues of calling someone a someone just because they possess an amazing talent] receiving the affirmation they were looking for in life and before even going on stage declaring the hope that life was going to be completely different from now.</p>
<p>take a moment before watching though, and many moments afterwards, to think of the role of this guy&#8217;s family and friends and classmates and the responsibility and opportunities we have every day to give affirmation to and love those around us, so that they know it&#8230; and especially the ones who may not hear it from many people all that often [don&#8217;t waste your time tweeting Brad Pitt that you think he&#8217;s hot &#8211; i imagine he &#8216;gets&#8217; that!]</p>
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<p>which reminded me of<a href="http://mashandpeace.wordpress.com/2013/04/19/friday-my-day-episode-4-blessed-are-the-geeks"> a post i wrote for my old &#8216;Mash and Peace&#8217; blog titled &#8216;Blessed are the Geeks&#8217;</a> that was about the labelling we tend to do so easily and the potential destructiveness of it&#8230;</p>
<p>so really <strong>who is your Andrew de Leon?</strong> [whether they can sing at all or not!] and what are you going to do <strong>today</strong> to let them know you care about them a lot?</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="https://brettfish.wordpress.com/2013/05/21/her-life-as-a-plus-size-model"><strong>[For a similiar themed article titled &#8216;Her life as a plus size model&#8217; click here]</strong></a></p>
<p><a href="http://mashandpeace.wordpress.com/2013/04/19/friday-my-day-episode-4-blessed-are-the-geeks/"> </a></p>
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