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<p>&#8220;Hi there. My name is Brett Fish Anderson and I benefit from White Privilege.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Hi Brett!&#8221;</p>
<p>i mean that&#8217;s how i thought it would go, when i wandered into the room, very much late to the party.</p>
<p>Only thing is, the room seems surprisingly empty.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em><strong>&#8220;As a black person I am really shocked that there are white ppl who think like this.&#8221; [Brian Maila]</strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em><strong>&#8220;Like Brian, I also didn’t realise that there were white people who actually realised that “white privilege” is real. Thank you so much for this.&#8221; [Khaniyisa]</strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">And those were not the only comments as a response to me, a white male, <a href="https://brettfish.wordpress.com/2014/09/03/im-not-sure-youre-against-that-thing-you-think-youre-against-white-privilege"><strong>writing some thoughts on White Privilege</strong></a>, suggesting that it is a thing and that we have to own it and then work together to counteract it or hope for complete transformation over time.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">I am also not the only one noticing this. Sarah Bessey, an amazing bloggerist from Canada, held back from writing her piece, while the Ferguson incident [the shooting and killing of a young black man repeatedly by a white police officer] was happening [she is Canadian] to give the Americans a chance to process and write their own story. But eventually, as the majority of the white bloggers seemed to be silent on it, she had to speak up <a href="http://sarahbessey.com/things-tell-ferguson"><strong>over here</strong></a>.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong>But these past four days in Ferguson have broken through my usual resolve: this is absolutely a justice issue. I have waited patiently for more white Christian bloggers to speak up, particularly the Americans, trying to give them precedent to respond, but I have been disheartened by minimal response there. I want to come alongside the African American voices already writing and advocating, even in this small way.</strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">i spent a LOT of time reading a LOT of posts in relation to Ferguson and White Privilege and Race over this last week and link after link was either African American people [both men and women] and then white women writing on the topic. I must have read well over 20 posts [in fact, i must have linked to close to 20 posts over <strong><a href="https://brettfish.wordpress.com/2014/09/04/white-privilege-other-helpful-posts-to-help-you-get-it">here</a> </strong>and <strong><a href="https://brettfish.wordpress.com/2014/09/05/white-privilege-in-all-shapes-and-forms">here</a></strong><strong> </strong>which means there were probably more] and i can&#8217;t remember any of them being written by white males [there might possibly have been one or two, but no white male faces stand out].</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">That doesn&#8217;t feel great and i am hoping that it is simply because i have not stumbled upon them. Although comments like Brian and Khanyisa&#8217;s make me feel like that might not be the case.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">One of the women whose blog posts i read actually told me later she was scared when she saw my picture next to my Twitterer comment  [she had to close the comment sections on both her blog pieces as they got out of hand] because obviously this white guy will react in the same way every other white guy she has encountered will react [especially this one with dreads, right] and then just so surprised when i affirmed her post. I am hoping Danielle will guest post for me in a few weeks time.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>So basically this post is a cry out to all my white blogger friends, especially the men. WHERE ARE YOU?</strong> Are you staying silent on such an important topic of conversation? Are you prepared to put your hand up and acknowledge White Privilege and then write a piece to get people thinking and talking?</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">It feels like this happened a little more naturally in Americaland as it was fueled by an incident [or lets be honest here, just one more incident in a long line] and so maybe that is what it will take in South Africa to get us all to the table [i hope not].</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>If you read this piece, then please issue a challenge to your white friends who blog</strong> [and even those who don&#8217;t &#8211; i can make space on my blog for more voices] and your white pastor friends and others in leadership or who have influence. Share this on their walls. Tweet this with their names in it. Let&#8217;s see some more white voices, and white male voices, speaking up about White Privilege.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>If you have read any white male voices speaking out on this topic then please add the links in the comments section</strong> &#8211; it would be great to be able to give a page of links that are not just African American and female voices [which have been so powerful and gracious and insightful and kind]</p>
<p><em><strong>My name is Brett Fish Anderson and i benefit from White Privilege. And i am wondering if there is anyone else out there? </strong></em></p>
<p>Found one! [Thankx John Scheepers] &#8211; Stephen Murray wrote <a href="http://osweetexchange.com/2014/08/21/i-repent"><strong>this inspirational piece</strong></a>.</p>
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