<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[A Life in Libraries]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[cbecker53]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com/author/cbecker53/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Communication:  Is it Hard to Talk About&nbsp;Yourself?]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Yup, I&#8217;m talking about communication <em>again!  </em>Makes you wonder about me, doesn&#8217;t it.  But, I have to say, I think it is so critical to being a good leader, manager, librarian. . . and in fact, being a good <em>person</em>!  So I apologize for putting so much emphasis on communication, but I strongly believe it is <em>that</em> important.</p>
<p>Today I have to share this most interesting post:  &#8220;<a title="the real me" href="http://communicateskills.com/2012/08/29/my-story/" target="_blank">My Story: Wish I was Better at Communicating the Real Me</a>&#8221; and its follow-up post: &#8220;<a title="Communicate Personality" href="http://communicateskills.com/2012/08/30/communicate-personality/" target="_blank">Dare to Communicate Personality: the Best Advice I Found Online</a>.&#8221;  Here&#8217;s a quote from<a title="the real me" href="http://communicateskills.com/2012/08/29/my-story/" target="_blank"> the first one</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>It’s easy to think that a person who presents himself poorly has lack of self-esteem or thinks badly about himself. But that. . . does not fit me. I think I do a lot of things quite well. I think I’m good enough most of the time. (And other times I think I’m great). Lack of self-esteem is not my problem. But to <em>talk</em> about myself is.</p></blockquote>
<div style="width: 250px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/95807910@N00/411196422" target="_blank"><img class="zemanta-img-inserted zemanta-img-configured" title="Communication" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm1.static.flickr.com/170/411196422_343c0965a8_m.jpg" alt="Communication" width="240" height="180" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Communication (Photo credit: P Shanks)</p></div>
<p>Does this resonate with you?  If so, the second post includes some <a title="Communicate Personality" href="http://communicateskills.com/2012/08/30/communicate-personality/" target="_blank">suggestions</a> like &#8220;Many people are afraid to reveal too much about themselves. It makes them feel vulnerable and exposed. But hiding things makes your personality a bit dull.&#8221; So, how to find that balance between revealing too much, and not revealing enough?  I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;ve found it yet.  But these two posts are helping me get a handle on it.</p>
<p>Is it hard for you to talk about yourself?  Do you have some tips to share?</p>
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