<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[A Life in Libraries]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[cbecker53]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com/author/cbecker53/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[When They Need Us&nbsp;Most]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>End-of-life decisions are not something any of us like to think about, much less talk about.  When the time comes to make such decisions about a loved one, people are understandably emotional and perhaps not thinking clearly.  And yet, while difficult, the topic is practically universal:  everyone loses loved ones, and everyone dies.</p>
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<p>How can libraries help?  It seems to me that this is a perfect opportunity to offer assistance to our clientele—here are some of my ideas:</p>
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<li>Make sure your collection has current materials in all formats on the topics of hospice, grief, living wills, death and dying, and the like.  Don&#8217;t forget the children&#8217;s collection.</li>
<li>Partner with your local hospice and/or hospital to offer programs at the library, provide reading lists at their facilities, jointly sponsor programs, etc.</li>
<li>Allow grief support groups to meet at the library</li>
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<p>But this is just a start.  What are your ideas?  Has your library addressed the topic?  Why or why not?</p>
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