<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[A Life in Libraries]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[cbecker53]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com/author/cbecker53/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Helicopter Bosses?]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px.png" rel="attachment wp-att-6829"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="6829" data-permalink="https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com/2016/01/22/helicopter-bosses/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px/" data-orig-file="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px.png" data-orig-size="800,368" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="helicopter" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px.png?w=300" data-large-file="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px.png?w=800" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-6829" src="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px.png?w=300&#038;h=138" alt="helicopter" width="300" height="138" srcset="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px.png?w=300&amp;h=138 300w, https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px.png?w=600&amp;h=276 600w, https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2016/01/military-helicopter-by-rones-800px.png?w=150&amp;h=69 150w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>I&#8217;ve heard of <a href="http://www.parents.com/parenting/better-parenting/what-is-helicopter-parenting/" target="_blank">helicopter parents</a>, who &#8220;hover&#8221; over their children, doing things children can (and should) do for themselves, but I had never heard of helicopter bosses. <!--more--></p>
<p>But I can see the points Jesse Lyn Stoner is making in <a href="http://seapointcenter.com/millennial-employees-helicopter-manager/" target="_blank">Are Your Millennial Employees Turning You Into a Helicopter Manager</a>? Of course, not all Millennials* are alike, just as not all of us boomers are alike! But it is a very different world, in which many children grow up believing &#8220;everyone gets a trophy&#8221; as Stoner describes in a story in the article. So if you find yourself managing Millennials, whether in a library, or another setting, you might want to ask yourself if you&#8217;re hovering. And if you are, you might want to try out the tips Stoner suggests.</p>
<h5><em>(*Millennials (also known as the Millennial Generation or Generation Y) are the demographic cohort following Generation X. There are no precise dates when the generation starts and ends; most researchers and commentators use birth years ranging from the early 1980s to the early 2000s.—<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Millennials" target="_blank">Wikipedia</a>.)</em></h5>
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