<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[A Life in Libraries]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[cbecker53]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com/author/cbecker53/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[&#8220;That&#8217;ll Never Work!&#8221;]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Negativity is not a good thing.</p>
<p><a href="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/35481589.png" rel="attachment wp-att-6585"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="6585" data-permalink="https://cherylbecker.wordpress.com/2015/07/20/yes-i-mean-no/attachment/35481589/" data-orig-file="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/35481589.png" data-orig-size="800,868" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="No" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/35481589.png?w=276" data-large-file="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/35481589.png?w=800" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-6585" src="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/35481589.png?w=276&#038;h=300" alt="No" width="276" height="300" srcset="https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/35481589.png?w=276&amp;h=300 276w, https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/35481589.png?w=552&amp;h=600 552w, https://cherylbecker.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/35481589.png?w=138&amp;h=150 138w" sizes="(max-width: 276px) 100vw, 276px" /></a><!--more-->But you know, sometimes, when the buck stops with you, you do have to say &#8220;no.&#8221; But instead of saying:</p>
<ul>
<li>No way!</li>
<li>Over my dead body!</li>
<li>That will never work here!</li>
<li>What were you thinking?!</li>
</ul>
<p>There are better ways to indicate that you don&#8217;t think an idea or suggestion might not work out:</p>
<ul>
<li>Ask questions.</li>
<li>Suggest modifications.</li>
<li>Pick your battles.</li>
</ul>
<p>Read more at <a href="http://quickbase.intuit.com/blog/how-to-raise-objections-at-work-diplomatically" target="_blank">How to Raise Objections at Work Diplomatically</a> (from The Fast Track).</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure you have additional thoughts and suggestions. Please share them in the comments.</p>
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