<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://clantilyscad.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[scandalousmuffin]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://clantilyscad.com/author/scandalousmuffin/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[&#8220;Sheryl Sandberg would be disappointed in me if I didn&#8217;t ask you about&nbsp;money.&#8221;]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Anecdotes about the impact of <em>Lean In </em>in the media industry <a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/bensmith/sheryl-sandberg-wants-me-to-ask-you-for-a-raise">via BuzzFeed</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>Other editors whom I asked this week told me that women who worked for them had brought up the book — its broadly empowering message, and its specific advice on pushing for a raise. It&#8217;s a concrete, if anecdotal, suggestion that Sandberg&#8217;s high-profile effort to start a movement is having real consequences on a dynamic that&#8217;s well known to managers and backed by volumes of <a href="http://hbr.org/2003/10/nice-girls-dont-ask/" target="_blank">research</a>: Women often ask for less money than they could get, and negotiate less aggressively than men.</p>
<p>The new phenomenon of women invoking Sandberg in salary talks &#8220;has happened here,&#8221; <i>New York Times</i> editor Jill Abramson said in an email. &#8220;I do think the book and all the attendant publicity have emboldened some women to speak up more directly about compensation, which is, of course, a welcome development.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
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<p>I made note of Sandberg&#8217;s<a href="http://clantilyscad.com/2012/05/31/sheryl-sandbergs-harvard-business-schools-class-2012-commencement-speech-communicate-better/"> commentary on women leaders</a> long before I knew she was expanding her ideas into a book.</p>
<p>My reaction was positive, and although I still haven&#8217;t gotten a chance to read <em>Lean In</em>, I imagine that my take-away will be on the more sympathetic side of the vast blogosphere <a href="http://feminspire.com/why-sheryl-sandbergs-new-movement-for-women-is-full-of-crap/">vitriol</a> and <a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/03/sheryl_sandberg_s_lean_in_gives_contradictory_advice.html">confusion</a>.</p>
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<p>.@<a href="https://twitter.com/lisamcintire">lisamcintire</a> @<a href="https://twitter.com/annaholmes">annaholmes</a> I mean, no man reads “Good to Great” worrying that it doesn’t sympathize with guys working at McDonald’s.</p>
<p>&mdash; Heidi N. Moore (@moorehn) <a href="https://twitter.com/moorehn/status/305544889591005186">February 24, 2013</a></p></blockquote>
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