<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Engage!]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://engagedharma.net]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Shaun Bartone]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://engagedharma.net/author/onestrawrevolution/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Vedanta vs. Buddhist Services: An Enlightening&nbsp;Experience]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>I went to the Vedanta Ashram Society this morning. The first thing I noticed was the huge figure of Durga on the main altar, riding a tiger, with all her weapons. I love Hindu Goddesses&#8211;they&#8217;re so fierce. The service was lovely. All the prayers were sung, mostly by the women, with harmonium, tabla, dohl (double-ended drum) clapping, and other percussion. I have sung enough kirtan that I understood some of the mantras and was able to sing along. There was a sermon by the pandit, Dr. Swami, on the similarities between Krishna and Christ, and the significance of the Solstice. It lasted 2 minutes, back to the singing. There was a five minute period of silent meditation, begun with three chants of the OM. They sit on the floor, but no cushions, just carpet. I was invited to introduce myself and was welcomed to come to their service every Sunday. (there were total 4 white people there) A delicious lunch of Indian food followed, with everyone present and enjoying the meal and each other&#8217;s company. I liked it very much and plan to go back once a month so that I can connect with Durga, who is one of my main Devis. I have a tattoo of Durga on my left arm.</p>
<p>One thing I noticed as a difference between the two experiences, besides the constant singing, is that there is no pressure to act a certain way, to sit in perfect silence or perfect posture or anything. It&#8217;s very relaxed; people frequently chat and touch each other during the service, connecting with family and friends.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have a problem with individual Buddhists (except a few) but I don&#8217;t like most Buddhist organizations. In addition to being classist and constantly demanding money, they are also very &#8220;missionary&#8221; in their approach to spirituality, that you have to meditate and do x, y and z and if you don&#8217;t, you won&#8217;t be enlightened, which amounts to the same thing as being &#8220;saved.&#8221; And you can never do enough to be enlightened; there&#8217;s always more practice you can do to be more enlightened and it never stops. The whole thing becomes a really high stress situation</p>
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