<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Fear the Drum Major]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[DrumMajorKev]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com/author/drummajorkev/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[My True-Love Hath My&nbsp;Heart]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="font-family:georgia,tahoma,arial;font-size:x-small;"><span style="font-family:Georgia;font-size:x-small;">My true-love hath my heart, and I have his,<br />
By just exchange one for the other given:<br />
I hold his dear, and mine he cannot miss;<br />
There never was a bargain better driven.<br />
His heart in me keeps me and him in one,<br />
My heart in him his thoughts and senses guides;<br />
He loves my heart for once it was his own;<br />
I cherish his because in me it bides.<br />
His heart his wound receivèd from my sight;<br />
My heart was wounded with his wounded heart;<br />
For as from me on him his hurt did light,<br />
So still methought in me his hurt did smart:<br />
Both equal hurt, in this change sought our bliss,<br />
My true love hath my heart and I have his.</span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">-Sir Philip Sydney</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">With New Years Eve upon us, It is time to look back and reflect on the year past, and the year to come.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">New Years Eve also happens to be Our Anniversary.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">As my husband and I set forth on year 15 together I thought it appropriate to take a look back at the years gone by. Let&#8217;s break it down by the numbers.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">1998 &#8211; The year we met.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">2003 &#8211; Our First Commitment Ceremony</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">2005 &#8211; Our Civil Union</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">2008 &#8211; Our Wedding</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">So that&#8217;s 14 years complete, 8 years committed, 6 years Civilly Unioned, and 3 Years Married.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">My True Love truely hath my Heart.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200469.jpg"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="1066" data-permalink="https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/my-true-love-hath-my-heart/newyears200469/" data-orig-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200469.jpg" data-orig-size="317,480" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="NewYears2004" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200469.jpg?w=198" data-large-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200469.jpg?w=317" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1066" title="NewYears2004" src="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200469.jpg?w=198&#038;h=300" alt="" width="198" height="300" srcset="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200469.jpg?w=198&amp;h=300 198w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200469.jpg?w=99&amp;h=150 99w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200469.jpg 317w" sizes="(max-width: 198px) 100vw, 198px" /></a>Our Commitment Ceremony 2004</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200412.jpg"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="1065" data-permalink="https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/my-true-love-hath-my-heart/newyears200412/" data-orig-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200412.jpg" data-orig-size="800,600" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;FinePix1300&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1072911569&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;5.8&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;125&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="NewYears200412" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200412.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200412.jpg?w=800" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1065" title="NewYears200412" src="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200412.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200412.jpg?w=300&amp;h=225 300w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200412.jpg?w=600&amp;h=450 600w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/newyears200412.jpg?w=150&amp;h=113 150w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>Our Cake that our Good Friend Corey Made.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">To the left of the cake you can see the Champagne Glasses that we made to give to all of the guests.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00037.jpg"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="1069" data-permalink="https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/my-true-love-hath-my-heart/kevin_brian_00037/" data-orig-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00037.jpg" data-orig-size="722,480" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.2&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NIKON D70&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1104445926&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;34&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.033333333333333&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Kevin_Brian_00037" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00037.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00037.jpg?w=722" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1069" title="Kevin_Brian_00037" src="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00037.jpg?w=300&#038;h=199" alt="" width="300" height="199" srcset="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00037.jpg?w=300&amp;h=199 300w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00037.jpg?w=600&amp;h=398 600w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00037.jpg?w=150&amp;h=100 150w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>2005 Our Civil Union</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00044.jpg"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="1093" data-permalink="https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/my-true-love-hath-my-heart/kevin_brian_00044/" data-orig-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00044.jpg" data-orig-size="480,722" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;4.5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;NIKON D70&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1104446141&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;50&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.033333333333333&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Kevin_Brian_00044" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00044.jpg?w=199" data-large-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00044.jpg?w=480" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1093" title="Kevin_Brian_00044" src="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00044.jpg?w=199&#038;h=300" alt="" width="199" height="300" srcset="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00044.jpg?w=199&amp;h=300 199w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00044.jpg?w=398&amp;h=600 398w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/kevin_brian_00044.jpg?w=100&amp;h=150 100w" sizes="(max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px" /></a>As part of the Civil Union we had a Candle Lighting. Each guest lit a small candle while the Hubby and I lit the big Silver candle in the middle.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/n631484244_1918099_5512.jpg"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="1067" data-permalink="https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com/2011/12/31/my-true-love-hath-my-heart/n631484244_1918099_5512/" data-orig-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/n631484244_1918099_5512.jpg" data-orig-size="480,360" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="n631484244_1918099_5512" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/n631484244_1918099_5512.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/n631484244_1918099_5512.jpg?w=480" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1067" title="n631484244_1918099_5512" src="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/n631484244_1918099_5512.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" srcset="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/n631484244_1918099_5512.jpg?w=300&amp;h=225 300w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/n631484244_1918099_5512.jpg?w=150&amp;h=113 150w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2011/12/n631484244_1918099_5512.jpg 480w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>Our Wedding in 2008.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">We figured since we had subjected all of our friends to 2 previous ones, we would forgo the big wedding and invite a small group as witness.</p>
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