<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Fear the Drum Major]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[DrumMajorKev]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com/author/drummajorkev/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Absentee Father]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>I know I know I have been neglecting this here blog thingy lately. It&#8217;s just been a busy couple weeks at home and at the office. The middle of the month found me covering for a coworker for 2 weeks and it was just unbelievably crazy. On the home front most of the time has been spent assimilating the Family into structure, rules, and schedules. By the time I get home from work, get dinner finished, and sit on the couch I just want to lose myself in the few shows we watch and need to catch up on.</p>
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<p>I took this picture a couple weeks ago when we decided to take a family walk to the park. It was a beautiful sunny Sunday and the park is only a couple blocks away. The best part was all the energy the Little One expended running and playing.</p>
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<p>The week before Halloween The Little Ones school had an Ice Cream Social sponsored by the PTO. They had pumpkin decorating, a costume parade, ice cream sundaes, and Bubble Mania. Essentially it was this guy who was a big kid who like to blow bubbles, but not just ordinary bubbles but Ginormous bubbles, some big enough to hold a small child in them. It was entertaining to say the least.</p>
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<p><a href="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/img_3036-e1415029212118.jpg"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="2684" data-permalink="https://fearthedrummajor.wordpress.com/2014/10/26/absentee-father/img_3036/" data-orig-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/img_3036-e1415029212118.jpg" data-orig-size="225,300" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;2.2&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;iPhone 5s&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1414781992&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.15&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;250&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0625&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;,&quot;latitude&quot;:&quot;41.409466666667&quot;,&quot;longitude&quot;:&quot;-73.44535&quot;}" data-image-title="IMG_3036" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/img_3036-e1415029212118.jpg?w=225" data-large-file="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/img_3036-e1415029212118.jpg?w=225" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2684" src="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/img_3036-e1415029212118.jpg?w=225&#038;h=300" alt="IMG_3036" width="225" height="300" srcset="https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/img_3036-e1415029212118.jpg 225w, https://fearthedrummajor.files.wordpress.com/2014/11/img_3036-e1415029212118.jpg?w=113&amp;h=150 113w" sizes="(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px" /></a>This past weekend was just as busy as the rest. Friday night we all went trick or treating in my Dads neighborhood, then hung out there for a bit before heading home. As you can see The Hubby and I dressed up along with The Little One. I was surprised at how many of the people giving out candy were happy to see us dressed up as well.</p>
<p>This weekend also brought some colder temperatures, rain, and what seemed like gale for winds. Normally this wouldn&#8217;t catch my attention but it also happened to be the First Annual Softball Tournament in honor of my Sister-In-Law who passed away in September. We spent some time down there just having family time, neither The Hubby nor I play softball but 2 of my brothers and my sister do. Sunday was definitely the better of the days with just the wind, as Saturday had the rain. The best part is we won a raffle prize so go us!</p>
<p>Not really much else to report, there has been a lot of just doing things we need to do for The Little One. The Hubby and I have each had a night out with friends alone, and managed to get a babysitter to have a night out together at our friends Halloween party Saturday night. We have our first Parent/Teacher conference coming up, and then the Holidays are just around the corner.</p>
<p>I promise to start blogging more, and it won&#8217;t all be about The Little One, but there will be some posts that will speak to him and the things we do as a family.</p>
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