<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Feminist Philosophers]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://feministphilosophers.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[annejjacobson]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://feministphilosophers.wordpress.com/author/jp12/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[&#8220;Never let him think you are&nbsp;smarter&#8221;]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Grandmother&#8217;s advice?  Not necessarily, <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2007/11/14/opinion/14dowd.html?_r=1&amp;ref=opinion&amp;oref=slogin">Maureen Dowd </a>tells us today.  Ray Fisher, a Columbia economics prof, conducted a two-year study which led him to conclude:</p>
<blockquote><p>It isn’t exactly that smarts were a complete turnoff for men: They preferred women whom they rated as smarter — but only up to a point &#8230; It turns out that men avoided women whom they perceived to be smarter than themselves. The same held true for measures of career ambition — a woman could be ambitious, just not more ambitious than the man considering her for a date.</p>
<p>&#8230; So, yes, the stereotypes appear to be true: We males are a gender of fragile egos in search of a pretty face and are threatened by brains or success that exceeds our own.</p></blockquote>
<p>Dowd goes on to recount the recent bad news for successful, intelligent women that the NY Times has been recording, some of it covered <a href="https://feministphilosophers.wordpress.com/2007/11/04/when-will-they-ever-learn/">on this blog</a>. And the news about having a zaftig figure (big hips = smarter kids) comes as no surprise after <a href="https://feministphilosophers.wordpress.com/2007/11/08/ready-to-breed/">this post</a>.</p>
<p>One has to wonder how one&#8217;s very bright friends ever &#8216;find a man.&#8217;  Hmmmmm.</p>
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