<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Feminist Philosophers]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://feministphilosophers.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[annejjacobson]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://feministphilosophers.wordpress.com/author/jp12/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Web tips: Quicks paths to&nbsp;perfection]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Getting a  tip about how to do something can be a bit difficult.  There are enough people principally interested in pointing out that you&#8217;re messing up because you are too dim to have figured out  some simple thing.  So your associations with getting tips might not be too good. </p>
<p>Still, there are lots of really good tips.  Here&#8217;s one: if  you are holding a meeting, try to draw up and stick to an agenda.  That&#8217;s pretty easy to do, quite easy to remember, and it can make a huge difference.</p>
<p>  In any case, I love reading tips.  I think I must have a highly resilient American optimism that there are littel things one can do that will make a big difference.  At the same time, there are grounds for worrying about the role of tips; maybe they merely give one the illusion of planning to change.  That&#8217;s because  a  lot of tips ask you to change some part of some routine in a fairly permanent way.  That&#8217;s really hard.  &#8220;4 Tips to get your life back on course&#8221; might be interesting, but it might not be really helpful.  <a href="http://www.flylady.net/">The flylady</a>, on the other hand, seems to have a good idea  of what it take to really change some part of one&#8217;s life though using her tips.  See our interesting discussion of her <a href="https://feministphilosophers.wordpress.com/2009/06/02/perhaps-silly-for-a-moment-but/">here</a>.</p>
<p>So here are some sites full of tips.  You may know others.  You are hereby invited to share, critique or change the topic!</p>
<p>1. <a href="http://www.happiness-project.com/"> The happiness project</a>.  This is full of tips and, yes, some awareness of what philosophers have said about the good life!  Still, the introductory description could make one worry:</p>
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<div>I&#8217;m working on a book, THE HAPPINESS PROJECT&#8211;a memoir about the year I spent test-driving every principle, tip, theory, and scientific study I could find, whether from Aristotle or St. Therese or Martin Seligman or Oprah.</div>
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<div>Try test-driving for a short period of time Aristotle&#8217;s views about happiness and virtue!</div>
<p>2.  <a href="http://www.dumblittleman.com/">Dumb little man </a>&#8211; tips for life.   The title for this site might just be making explicit the attitude people &#8220;just giving a little tip&#8221; seem often to have.  The authors for this blog also seem to have their own tipster blogs.</p>
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