<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[shattersnipe: malcontent &amp; rainbows]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://fozmeadows.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[fozmeadows]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://fozmeadows.wordpress.com/author/fozmeadows/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[It&#8217;s Called Basic&nbsp;Reasoning]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Oh, come <em>on</em>, Queensland &#8211; <a href="http://www.essentialbaby.com.au/parenting/baby/child-neglect-linked-to-feeding-20090127-7qgh.html?page=-1">women who don&#8217;t breastfeed are more likely to neglect or abuse their children</a>? The fact that you&#8217;ve managed to correlate these two things does not mean that one is directly responsible for the other. Many women choose not to breastfeed: some for medical reasons, some out of personal preference, some out of necessity. The fact that abusive mothers go down a similar path, however, is not a rational choice, because for whatever reason, they are already emotionally disconnected from their children; and if this disconnect is caused by external or pre-existing problems, then breastfeeding will not solve them. In fact, if those problems concern substance abuse, alcoholism or chain-smoking, then breastfeeding could well harm the child in question. Fancy! </p>
<p>So, no, Lane Strathearn: promoting breasfeeding is <em>not</em> a simple and &#8220;cost-effective&#8221; way of preventing abuse and neglect. The act of suckling a child will not cure post-natal depression, alcoholism or nicotine addiction, nor will it negate the consequences emotional trauma, poverty, single parenthood or poor education. Those are many and various battles; none of them simple. By all means, promote breastfeeding in public; educate women about their choices; help addicted mothers come clean. But don&#8217;t lay guilt on good, happy, bottle-feeding mothers by wielding poorly reasoned conclusions about their propensity for child abuse.</p>
<p>That kind of idiocy helps no-one.</p>
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