There’s just THAT one purpose for the intimacy after the sexual assault, his way of making you less, by demeaning you like that, he’s basically saying, so long as I touch you gently after I rape you, you will NEVER object, as we ALL want to have that kind of intimacy from a man, right??? Uh, GET a C-L-U-E!

The intimacy after the sexual assault, it’s a kind of making up for the violence toward the victim, and a way that justifies the perpetrator’s behavior: I did give you some loving AFTER I’d raped you, which makes the rape more than okay, and, because I KNOW you enjoyed getting FUCKED by me gently, you will NEVER object to the RAPE I will be doing to you from before, and that, is how you get SUCKED, into the vortex of that VICIOUS cycle, ladies!

The intimacy after the sexual assault, kinda like how you need YO mamas to kiss you boo-boos as children, right? Except, that in that case, it’s a PLACEBO, and it DOES no harm, while in the intimacy after the sexual assault, it DOES, a TON of harm!