No-show at the family gatherings, because why BOTHER showing up, huh???  Showing up will only tense the originally, already growing more and more agitated atmosphere, so, why the F*** (maxed out???) would I want to make this already too unpleasant situation even MORE unpleasant?  So, count me O-U-T.

Who’s the invisible man behind the mother and son, I wonder…not my photo

No-show at the family gatherings, because I’m NO one’s family, I have NO family left, and, you still can’t blame me, for DISOWNING anybody here, they’re the ones who’d fucked me up so terribly when I was younger, and now, I’m old enough, and can damn well, stand on my own two feet, so, W-H-O needs them, huh?  Besides, family are the ones who let you down over, over, over, over, AND over again, in my life experience…

So yeah, I’d, DISOWNED them all, but hey, I’d still, shown up at those god DAMN family gatherings on her side, ‘cuz, why the hell would I want to, turn down a “free meal”, right???  Yup!!!