<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Life, the Obstacle Course]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://lifetheobstaclecourse.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[taurusingemini]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://lifetheobstaclecourse.wordpress.com/author/taurusingemini/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[An Unromantic Crush, a&nbsp;Poem]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;">On how dementia slowly, takes over, translated…</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>At the Very Beginning</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>The Cruel Winter Was Snowing Down on Us</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>The Northern Wind Blew Harshly by</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>We Squeezed Tightly, Next to One Another</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>I’d Heard that Nostalgic Oldie Underneath</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>Your Chaotic Breaths</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">what it felt like, for someone who&#8217;s diagnosed with dementia, NOT my artwork&#8230;<img src="https://i0.wp.com/www.hormonetherapeutics.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/dementia.jpg" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>I’d Also Heard that Vibrato Clearly</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Turns Out, You’d Turned Your Asthma into the Rhythms </em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Are You Really Going to</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Conduct Those Dried Up Years of Youth</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>With Your Wrinkled and Deformed Fingers</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Between the Grayed, and Thinned Out Hair</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>We Met Again</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>We Were, Very Close to One Another</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The Snow Stopped Outside</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Your Grayed Out, Lowered Gaze</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Started, Staring into that Icy Cold Plain in the Distance, Seemingly, Lost</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>You’d Fallen Silent Now</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Like the Snow that’d Fallen</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/02902/dementia_2902785b.jpg" />not my photo still&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>You’d Contemplated Silently</em></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>About the Life You Just Had</em></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>Everything You’d Weathered Through</em></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>Those, Out-of-Focus Moments in Time</em></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>We Were Very Close</em></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>In Your Imaginations</em></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>Inviting You, to Dance Along in Your Wheelchair</em></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>Those Dried-Up, Parched Lips of Yours</em></p>
<p style="text-align:right;"><em>Still Had that Hint of an Old Smile</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">not my art&#8230;<img src="https://ichemepresident.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/memory-loss.jpg" /></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>And that Scarf-Hovered Neck of Yours</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>With that Lightly Scented, Older Brand of Perfume</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>We Were, So Close to One Another</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>And I Feel</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Your Thirties Aged Mild and Gentle Nature</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>As Well as the Loneliness that Became, Endless</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Due to Your, Alzheimer’s</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">So, this, is how those diagnosed with dementia are, they are, constantly, living in their own separate pasts, like the poem suggested, and, everything became unknown to you on the outside, you’re, trapped, in your own little worlds, living, those age-old memories of your childhood, adolescent, young adulthood years…</p>
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