<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Life, the Obstacle Course]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://lifetheobstaclecourse.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[taurusingemini]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://lifetheobstaclecourse.wordpress.com/author/taurusingemini/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[Love Became a Game of&nbsp;Control]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;">In this game we’re playing, love, we’re, fighting for control, the control over each other’s actions, words, and every OTHER available aspect in our lives together…</p>
<p><img src="https://i0.wp.com/the-love-compass.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Getting-off-the-rollercoaster-the-anxous-avoidant-trap.jpg" /><em>pull on it a little harder, the heart will get RIPPED up that&#8217;s for sure!  Not my picture&#8230;</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Love became a game of control, and, as you may already, know, that in EVERY game that’s played, there’s always a WINNER, and a LOSER, and so, we’d gotten into this tug-of-war, fighting for the best spot!</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Love became a game of control, it’s, no good now, and, I know how we both hated being controlled by each other, and wonder, WHY can’t love be good to us? Love became a game of control, we’d, used it as a leverage against each other, to win, and yet, if we keep on playing it like this, there will only be LOSERS, and NO winners at all.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="mainImage accessible nofocus" title="檢視來源圖片" src="https://www.marriage.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/119-2.jpg" alt="love is no longer love 的圖片結果" /><em>you do NOT want to know how this ends!  Not my photo&#8230;</em></p>
<p>Love became a game of control, it’s how it goes, and, we both got too comfortable, playing our parts, killing this love we once had so good slowly………………</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">When love becomes a game of control, you should just, GET yourselves out from it, otherwise, you’ll be, totally, SCREWED, trust me, I’d seen it happen!!!</p>
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