<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[a hard and a rock place]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://muirnin.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[David]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://muirnin.wordpress.com/author/muirnin/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[40. audacity]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>What is it about men that makes them think that, out of all possible mates, they&#8217;d be the ideal match or lover for another person?</p>
<p>I ask this because all of a sudden, for the first time, I&#8217;ve caught myself thinking like that. Not necessarily the cocky, arrogant frat boy type attitude; but I&#8217;m looking at someone and thinking, &#8220;Yeah, I could make him happy.&#8221; And I want to. I wouldn&#8217;t necessarily fulfill all his dreams and desires (no one&#8217;s <span style="font-style:italic;">that</span> good), but I&#8217;d like to think that being with me would be somewhere on the way to hitting that mark.</p>
<p>Is that just sheer audacity? Or desperate hope?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know. What I do know is that I just turned 27.</p>
<p>By 28, I&#8217;m not going to still be single.</p>
<p>Case in point, this is what I&#8217;m talking about:</p>
<blockquote style="margin-right:0;"><p><em>&#8230; I just think you need time to know<br />
That I&#8217;m the guy to make it real:<br />
The feelings you don&#8217;t dare to feel.<br />
I&#8217;ll bend the world to our will,<br />
And we&#8217;ll make Time stand still.</em></p></blockquote>
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<p><em>&#8230; now <strong>that&#8217;s</strong> audacity.</em></p>
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