<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[a hard and a rock place]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://muirnin.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[David]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://muirnin.wordpress.com/author/muirnin/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[58. truth]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[Sometimes it's the right move to leave a relationship if it's abusive or unhealthy, or if it was disingenuous to begin with. But what if you realize that you were the problem to begin with, or even that maybe you've been letting other voices alter and shade your perceptions of that relationship, making it appear worse than it ever was?]]></html></oembed>