<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[a hard and a rock place]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[https://muirnin.wordpress.com]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[David]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://muirnin.wordpress.com/author/muirnin/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[176. aleatory]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[I've been reflecting lately on my last few relationships and what I want (and don't want) in my future husband: things like being a sexy geek, insatiably curious, and non-monogamous.]]></html><thumbnail_url><![CDATA[https://muirnin.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/roll-the-dice-e1367450903437.jpg?w=150&fit=440%2C330]]></thumbnail_url><thumbnail_width><![CDATA[]]></thumbnail_width><thumbnail_height><![CDATA[]]></thumbnail_height></oembed>