<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" standalone="yes"?><oembed><version><![CDATA[1.0]]></version><provider_name><![CDATA[Scobleizer]]></provider_name><provider_url><![CDATA[http://scobleizer.blog]]></provider_url><author_name><![CDATA[Robert Scoble]]></author_name><author_url><![CDATA[https://scobleizer.blog/author/scobleizer/]]></author_url><title><![CDATA[The eight ways you can be my friend (or enemy)&nbsp;online]]></title><type><![CDATA[link]]></type><html><![CDATA[<p>Two posts caught my eye this morning:</p>
<p><strong>Steve Rubel:</strong> <a href="http://www.micropersuasion.com/2007/08/how-the-web-cha.html">The Web changes how we define friendship</a>.<br />
<strong>Donna Bogatin:</strong> <a href="http://blog.insiderchatter.com/2007/08/28/newsfriends-facebook-anti-social-utility-real-friends-dont-share/">Real friends don&#8217;t share</a>.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been hanging out in my Kyte chat room on and off since Sunday and one of the most common misperceptions is how online worlds deal with the issue of &#8220;friendship.&#8221; The misunderstandings here are really deep. Particularly on how Facebook tracks your friendship online.</p>
<p>1) People don&#8217;t understand what the difference between a &#8220;real&#8221; friend and an &#8220;online&#8221; friend is.<br />
2) People don&#8217;t understand that Facebook can tell the difference between my enemies and friends (and I have both on Facebook and Plaxo, since I accept everyone&#8217;s online friendship, if requested).</p>
<p>Anyway, I cover this in two videos:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.kyte.tv/channels/view.html?uri=channels/6118/47746">Part I of the eight ways you can be my friend (or enemy) online</a>. 20 minutes.<br />
<a href="http://www.kyte.tv/channels/view.html?uri=channels/6118/47752">Part II of the eight ways you can be my friend (or enemy) online</a>. 4 minutes.</p>
<p>I mention Mark Lucovsky of Google in this video because he Faceslammed me. Funny, <a href="http://www.techmeme.com/070827/p105#a070827p105">Google&#8217;s new Facebook app</a> doesn&#8217;t work for me. Maybe he should have had me test out Google&#8217;s Facebook application before releasing it to the world. 🙂</p>
<p>[kyte.tv 6118]</p>
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